Online dating: Is it just for losers?

Online meetings used this frightening and shameful thing when it just started. You know, back in the day, when people thought that the Internet is reserved for porn and frightening perverts. People used to have this strange idea that only ramps and losers will be rollering ...


Online Dating - Is it just for losersOnline meetings used this frightening and shameful thing when it just started. You know, back in the day, when people thought that the Internet is reserved for porn and frightening perverts. People were used to getting this strange idea that only ramps and losers fall so low to try to find love on the internet. Thank God, everything is in the past and everyone knows that the Internet is great and serves many purposes. The truth is nowadays, you spend most of your day on the internet. We are all constantly on Twitter, Facebook, Instagram, Pinterest, YouTube. That's how we make friends. That's how we work, shop, watch movies. So why not find love in the same way? And yet, the last, call them "Oldfashioned" people who still do not believe in online dating and think it's a horrible idea. Well, let's see how it's really and exhaust these ideas once and for all.
First of all, it is important to indicate that 1 of 5 relationships starts online these days. Whether specific online dating services or social media - that's how people meet now. This is the norm. To move on. It's the 21st century and everything is online.

Online Dating - Is it just for losersWe did some research to know what are the disadvantages of online dating, and even if they were quite lame and seemed to contradict each other, decided to solve them.

1. So it's online that it's not for real.
A number of people are worried about the fact that, since it is online and not face to face, people are more inclined to lie or use false images. Yes, the appropriate term for this is the chattoral and this happens, but not as often as you think. Because really, what is the point? When you meet, you will see the real deal and you always have the opportunity to walk. In addition, if you are worried about their appearance, you can always skype.

Let's be real, it is not as if people do not lie in real life. Yes, you may be able to see them right away in a bar (this is where you meet people, right?) But it's not like they will tell you all that is there and then.
2. There is no mystery.
In contradiction with the previous disadvantage, some say that the dating of the Internet has taken the mystery of dating. There is too much information available online and, in one way or another, is bad and makes it less interesting and less intriguing. Yeah ... because you do not really want to know right away if they have something in common with you. Perhaps you would prefer to invest a lot of time and money to move to several dates, spend months on them and only after discovering that they are an ex-murderer or worse, they could be a fan of Justin Bieber.
3. The others will not take you seriously.
The notion that people think that you are a loser to start an online relationship is so ridiculous that it seems almost compound. Nobody cares. They are too busy love food photos on Instagram, starting the drama on Twitter and harassing their exès on Facebook, or hitting hotties on Grindr or Tinder. You can not really surprise anyone saying more "We met online".

Online Dating - Is it just for losersLet's see what benefits are
1. You save time and money.
Some may want to spend their precious time and money in bars, while waiting for the charming Prince of Waltz with a one million dollar smile, a cheese care line and an offer to buy you a drink , others prefer not to do it. Having the opportunity to discover what a person loves, what are his hobbies and his tastes, political opinions, opinions on life, the universe and everything, just a few Keystrokes avoid a lot of time and money. The time and money you could spend, let's say a massage to a spa.
2. Less clumsiness and stress.
If you are on a dating site, you do not have to worry about their intentions. Everyone here is looking for the same thing - relationships. This makes it less embarrassing and stressful. You do not have to guess if they are just friendly or if they flirt. Once you've found someone you like and you chatted for a while, it will be much less embarrassing to finally go on a date. No need to worry about conversation topics and tell you bad. Now you will have SMH to fall on. As a conversation you started online, you may already have jokes inside the time you meet, which, as we all know, makes all much more fun.
3. More options. More freedom.
Unlike offline dating you are not limited to your group of friends or a shower groupBags SLOIS at the club. Moreover, since it's someone you have never met before, you will probably not have friends in common, which is great - no one there to judge you or gossip about you where it does not work. It's also a good idea if you plan to move. This way, you can already find a spirit of visit wherever you are, you move, even before you get there.
4. Safety option for shy people.
Many people are shy and do not feel comfortable in pubs / clubs / bars. It is difficult to have an appropriate conversation with a stranger, especially in an environment based on a strong voice and are worried about one million other things. The clumsy silences are awful. This delicate moment when someone asks you to tell them something about yourself and you draw a complete white, just like "who am I?". With the online meeting, you would not have to worry about it, because you will be at home, all comfortable and relaxed.
5. No fear of rejection.
You do not need to confront them and worry about what to say and how to react. In most cases online, the conversation is a kind of die dies and you know that it did not work, or maybe it will simply be a message that says "sorry, it will not work". Anyway, it's not frightening at all, as if it's IRL. In most cases, if someone does not like your profile, they will probably not contact you in the first place, so you do not need to think about the rejection.

As you can see in our Impromptu Pro and your list list above, the disadvantages are few and ridiculous and the most numerous benefits. So, stop worrying, choose a public place like a cinema or restaurant for your first appointment and you should go well. And no, it's not dangerous. If you think about it, encounter random strangers in a dark club while you're intoxicated is even more dangerous, but people do it all the time.


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