Most important thing in a relationship
There are dozens and thousands of lists on "Top 10 things to know and do to find your" prince charming ". They all contain ridiculous stereotypes and tons of false ideas on hairstyles, the proportions of the body And fashion. If you stumble on one of these "cheeky" articles ...
There are dozens and thousands of lists on "Top 10 things to know and do to find your" prince charming ". They all contain ridiculous stereotypes and tons of false ideas onhairstyles, Proportions of the body and mode. If you stumble on one of these "cheeky" articles, it could also mention sex positions and what men are so-called hot.
How many times have you seen titles on the lines of "7 things that every girl should do to please her boyfriend»? Lies. They are all lies!
We were washed in the brain from here to which a woman should and should not do. Hundreds of impressionable teenage girls reading this and buy in the idea that if you're dressed just and you're perfect, you'll get miraculously in a perfect relationship that will inevitably lead to a beautiful wedding and a house with 2.5 children and A white fence picket around your beautiful courtyard.
In addition to being told exactly how to dress, act and make your makeup, we are also informed that if we are too difficult, we will finish alone forever. There are books written by men for women who recommend them to have that "5 discussions of the case" - things that absolutely, positively would kill the relationship for you. Only 5 things they are allowed not to stand in their search for a suitable boyfriend. Does not it seem ridiculous? And above all, do women already take time to explain the breakers of the agreement to men? Probably not.
Ladies, it's time to realize that no matter how many items you can read about "a perfect haircut all men find attractive" or "a dress that will make him lose his mind", he will change not dramatically your life. This could help you mark a date or connection, and if that's what you're looking for - you go girl! Occasional meeting is a good thing that will help you learn more about you and what you love and you do not like in your man. It will also, most certainly offer you a humorous story that you can then tell your friends.
But if it's a serious relationship, you're looking for, then forget everything you've read the magazines and be yourself. You can be as difficult as you want and wear what you want. No matter how the media tries to make us believe that men and women are completely different species and have a set or rules each of them should follow - it's just not the case. We are not so different. Men do not just care about eyes and women are not just after a rich husband with an ABS of 6 Pack! We appreciate all the opinions and opinions of others, character traits, interests and tastes of music or movies, we all appreciate good jokes and conversations engaged.
The truth is said, there are only 5 things that matter in a relationship - integrity, honesty, trust, communication and humor. If you have these, you are defined. There is no problem that can not be solved with honest conversation where both partners are open minded and ready to listen. Go find a man who cherits these features and you have found your prince!